The ladies get together to examine their “non negotiables” in relationships and explain why everyone needs a list! They reflect on Thanksgiving and Black Friday and reveal how they met and what led to the birth of Sistanomics.
1:10 – Assata says that Black Friday is the most wonderful time of the year. Tonza does not participate, while Joan only wants Black Friday to begin on FRIDAY.
2:30 – What do vegans do on Thanksgiving?
4:30 – Here we reveal how the three of us met. Listen as we tell all! Two us of met in high school and would later keep the third one out of jail (sort of)!
11:59 – What led to the birth of Sistanomics? A divorce, a painful marital separation, intense counselling, and lots and lots of wine!
13:44 – Is Assata guilty of Dog Colorism? Joan and Tonza think so!
17:09 – What are non negotiables and why should everyone have a list? When do they kick in after you’ve begun the dating process? Make sure the person you’re dating meets your requirements before you get in to deep! You cannot make him or her be the one.
21:10 – You must also be true to yourself. Be realistic about what expectations you can meet in a relationship. Sending the representative on the first few dates will set you up for failure every time. Be honest about what you can, and cannot bring to the table.
23:48 – Tonza, Assata, and Joan each tell what their non negotiables are in relationships. Listen to find out which one of us requires honesty, who requires strength and support, and who absolutely cannot tolerate effeminacy (The quality or state of (a man or boy) having traits, tastes, habits, etc., traditionally considered feminine, as softness or delicacy.)!
35:52 – Apply Dr. Gary Chapman’s The 5 Love Languages to measure compatibility in romantic relationships and marriages, friendships, and career affiliations. You would be surprised how much a simple quiz can shed new light on why you and your partner and totally in sync – or not.